A VOICE TO BE HEARD

Hey Babe have you ever really thought about what your ideal guy or relationship will be like? Do you think you will find love, and feel loved by a wonderful guy who cherishes you as his little angel? Do you want him to listen to you, make you feel attractive and beautiful, and constantly remind you of how stunning and sexy you are to him? Do you want to experience your dream of life-long romance and never-ending passion ,then one day get married and start a family. One of the things you need to know is that guys aren’t easy to understand and when you find a good guy, he doesn't come with an "instruction manual" stating how to use. This situation is most dangerous when you meet a great guy and you don’t know how to catch or keep him .To be real great guys are hard to find and when you find one you can’t afford to loose him, because of your dumb mistakes. Many at times when there are issues between you and your guy, your girlfriends try to comfort and encourage you though they have good intentions trying to make you feel better, they’re also accidentally making the situation WORSE.
They are trying to blame the situation on him instead of trying to help you understand how to keep a great guy around.
In the quest for a lasting change or improvement in life one of the things u must do is to look for, meet, and learn from people who are already experts in that area that you are looking for change and growth in. Hey baby the world of love, dating and relationships is not an exception. At times u feel like wanting to know all about that guy in your life naturally. In fact, lots of babes can't stand to admit that they don't know everything there is to know about their guy and how too keep the guy of their dreams. But it's when things stop going "according to plan" (like when the guy gets distant, scared or decides he isn't ready for a commitment, or stops "feeling it" his babe ) that she realize that she’s not the expert she had hoped she was.
Baby If you're serious about finding, keeping a lasting relationship , with ur true love, one of the single most important things you will ever do is to surround yourself with people who ALREADY KNOW how to get there, people who have seen and have dealt with all the problems you may run into or you're running into.
I'm talking about people who have not only been through it themselves, and KNOW the exact steps to take in each CRITICAL situation, but people who have also spent years successfully teaching others how to have success and fulfillment in dating and relationships that most babes are looking for.
Because baby you need a guy that is fully committed to you , a guy who treats you special , gives you comfort and security, find him and keep him .
Funmi